Monday, February 1, 2016

DON’T CALL ME PRIVILEGED -- THAT’S AN INSULT!

By Edwin Cooney

A few days ago, a friend sent me a column by Christine Emba who writes the “In Theory” blog for the Washington Post.  The topic of the column was the prevalence of “white privilege” here in the United States. In her commentary, Ms. Emba outlined some of the components of white privilege as follows:

Not being followed or harassed by suspicious store personnel when shopping.
The option to curse or dress sloppily in public without people reflecting on the disadvantages of your morals predicated on your race.
If you have a quarrel with any part of the goods or services you’ve purchased, the person in charge of that department or service will be of your own race.
The expectation that should you move into a nice neighborhood, you can expect to be greeted warmly by your neighbors.
You will feel comfortable and normal in all walks of life.
Finally, Ms. Emba defines white privilege as being  “the social advantage that comes from being seen as merely part of the norm.”

Even more eloquently and powerfully, she quotes from Wellesley College professor Peggy McIntosh’s 1988 paper entitled “White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack.”  Dr. McIntosh defines white privilege as “a set of unearned assets that white people can count on cashing in each day even as they remain largely oblivious to their advantages.”

So, there it is.  If you’re white in America, you’re a privileged citizen in comparison to people of color.  It’s hard to argue with either Ms. Emba or Dr. McIntosh.  However, it’s even harder to swallow the idea that those of us who have white skin are really and truly privileged.  We didn’t choose to be white any more than people of color chose their complexions!

Ms. Emba writes that she was disappointed with the reaction of many whites when a version of her column was published on Martin Luther King Day. Most of the protests minimized the feelings, especially of blacks, that they are second class citizens invariably looked upon with everything from hatred to indifference.  One common reaction was that if only blacks would pull up their proverbial “bootstraps” and get off welfare by getting a job, everything would be just fine, thank you!

Of course, all of us in one way or another are privileged.  Blacks and whites alike possess valuable talents that entice the privileged class to pay them handsomely.  Thus, they become privileged!  Whites and blacks alike are limited by physical disability.  Thoughtful, generous, intelligent, foolish and wise blacks and whites populate this broad and gracious land of ours.  Still, there looms the question of privilege and why it’s a drag to be seen as privileged.

First, few of us, the privileged included, rarely feel privileged in this uncertain world.  Second, often when one is born a member of the privileged class, one eventually gets used to being privileged and it’s no “big deal.”  In other words, the distinction or the exceptions granted by privilege fade with time.

Third, to be branded “privileged” requires those thus classified to give much in return.  “If much is given, more is expected.”  Sadly, too many of us, whether or not we’re of the privileged class, heartily resent being required to do anything even when we’d normally be glad to give to others.  We privately and sometimes not so privately insist, “let me decide to be generous!”  Too often we even resent the scriptural call to be our brother’s keeper.  The price of privilege is pretty steep and consequently quite demanding.

Fourth, another truth is that the privileged are seldom looked upon with much empathy or understanding.  The material, social, and emotional burdens they carry are seldom appreciated by the common folk and if there is anything beyond food, clothing, shelter, money, or love that all of us crave, it’s our hunger to be understood and appreciated by others.

Most of us “common folk” find little room in our hearts for the burdens of the privileged.  Struggling with the challenges we face, we, whom Lincoln called “the plain people,” tend to minimize our own blessings or privileges.  As for the privileged, we’re sure that they take pretty good care of themselves and so they do!  With that, our concern for the privileged class comes to a screeching halt!

As for the social status we call “privileged,” by definition it is a very narrow designation.  While we were growing up, the kids who were “teacher’s pets” or those who had lots of money or fine clothes were “the privileged.”  In adulthood, those who are well off largely due to an unearned income are generally regarded as the privileged ones in society. So the question is what role, if any, do the privileged play in society?  Historically, the most positive role they play is that of role model.  I can think of at least three public servants, Nelson Rockefeller, Ted Kennedy and George H. W. Bush, who sacrificed their ivory towered sanctuaries for the slings and arrows of public service.  Ask yourself, if you were any one of those three men, would you subject yourself to the political abuse to which they subjected themselves in political life?

In closing, I humbly offer you a truth that should be self evident!  White privilege really doesn’t exist.  Privileges are not earned and they thus cannot be unearned. After all, a privilege is something that is consciously granted and ultimately acknowledged.  Racial bigotry is the real culprit.  Racial prejudice is as American as cherry pie.  Anyone who doesn’t see that reality is blind in more ways than one.

As I see it, there is too much pointless prejudice and jealousy toward those classified as privileged.  If someone is born with unearned assets, that person can hardly be charged with any kind of misdeed!  If it isn’t a crime to be one of President Abraham Lincoln’s “plain people,” how can it be a crime to possess privileges?  Personal prejudice, not privilege, is America’s systemic disease!

As much as I whole-heartedly concur with Ms. Emba and Dr. McIntosh’s sentiments and descriptions of the benefits white Americans have that black Americans lack, white privilege is a misnomer. To be categorized as privileged in 21st Century America is an unearned insult!  Being bigoted and being privileged are far from being the same thing.

The late George C. Wallace was quite bigoted, but nobody ever suggested that he was privileged.  From what we’ve seen during the 2015-16 GOP primary season, Mr. Trump might be easily described as a privileged bigot. After all, he boasts about both his bigotry and his privileges!


RESPECTFULLY SUBMITTED,
EDWIN COONEY       

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