Monday, November 24, 2014

THANKSGIVING – ITS MEANING IS VERY, VERY PERSONAL!

By Edwin Cooney

Thanksgiving Day is not only one of my favorite days of the year, it’s frequently for me a very personal day.  Five times every 28 years I celebrate my birthday on Thanksgiving Day.  Even after all these years, I’m still trying to grasp the depth of its purpose and its meaning.

To say “thank you” is, of course, an expression of gratitude.  It’s a testimony to the value you and I place on an event, our appreciation of the society in which we live and of our very lives.

Our first Thanksgiving was held in the fall of 1621 when Pilgrim Governor William Bradford invited a bunch of Wampanoag Indians over to their settlement for dinner (or if you prefer “to their place”) to celebrate the Pilgrims’ first bountiful new world harvest. 

That historic Thanksgiving was a multi-day occasion.  Although there was likely no pumpkin or mince pie, no cranberry jelly, and probably no dressing, it’s possible that they might have had roast eagle instead of turkey along with their lamb, venison, goose, turnip, squash and various kinds of fish.  Whether the Indians brought along any “fire water” or perhaps even some local wine isn’t recorded, but it’s hard for this observer to imagine that the Pilgrims and the Indians feasted and danced for three days only drinking water and tea!

Our “Pilgrim Fathers” insisted that the purpose of the occasion was to thank both the Indians and the Almighty for assisting Bradford and company in getting through their first New England winter and successfully sowing and reaping a generous harvest.  From all reports, the occasion went well.  Everyone apparently had enough to eat and drink, supposedly everyone danced with the partner of his or her choice, and a good time was had by all.  The question then is what, if any, was the long-term value of the Pilgrim’s expressed gratitude?

There were two more pre-Revolutionary War Thanksgiving Day celebrations.  In 1623, in the wake of a nourishing rain following a long drought in Pilgrim New England, Governor Bradford invited his Wampanoag Indian friends to another Thanksgiving feast.

However, just 53 years later, the Puritans who’d taken over the New England colony from the separatist Pilgrims invited only one Wampanoag Indian to their 1676 Thanksgiving Day celebration.  He was Metacom, the son of the great Massasoit, the Wampanoag leader who had originally befriended our Pilgrim Fathers. Metacom, who was then known by the Puritans as “King Phillip” for his European style of dress and bearing, was the very reason for that Thanksgiving feast.  Having turned on the Puritan settlers, he led a long period of warfare against white New Englanders before he was finally conquered and slain.  It was Metacom’s head atop a pike that served as sort of a centerpiece in 1676 at our third day of thanksgiving.

In 1621 and 1623, Thanksgiving Day signified friendship, unity and peace.  Beginning in 1676, Puritan Massachusetts altered the meaning and perhaps the very nature of “thanksgiving.”

Friday, October 18th, 1777, the newly minted United States of America would celebrate its first official “day of thanksgiving.”  The occasion was our victory over British General John (“Gentleman Johnny”) Burgoyne at the Battle of Saratoga, New York.  The hero of the day was General Horatio Gates.  The long-term benefit of the victory was the heretofore reluctant intervention of both France and Spain on the side of the American cause.  Thus, the fourth celebration of Thanksgiving was gratitude for triumph in war.  The score at that point was peace and friendship, 2, gratitude for victory in war, 2.

In November 1863, President Lincoln, responding to the insistence of Sarah Josepha Hale (the editor-in-chief of a publication called the American Lady’s Magazine), declared that Thursday, November 26th would be a National Day of Thanksgiving.  Surely Thanksgiving Day in 1863 celebrated the increasing advancement of Union troops over the Confederacy (which included our army and naval conquests of Mobile, Vicksburg, and Gettysburg) as well as Lincoln’s issuance of The Emancipation Proclamation.

Certainly no commentator can suggest, with much hope of influencing readers, what we ought to be thankful for this Thursday.  However, I can’t resist the following observation.

If we only focus on the blessings of yesterday, whether they be victory in war or the hard-earned freedoms and prosperity we enjoy today, what does that say about our hopes and expectations for tomorrow?  Perhaps, then, the real significance of yesterday’s blessings is the opportunity that is still ours to make future Thanksgiving Days even more worthwhile.

Two Thanksgiving Days ago on Thursday, November 22nd, 2012, at the Erie, Pennsylvania home of two very close friends, a very special lady and I agreed to share the rest of our lives together.  As wonderful as the memory of our engagement is, the opportunity it offers for gratitude throughout so many tomorrows gives an extra special meaning to Thanksgiving Day!

RESPECTFULLY SUBMITTED,
EDWIN COONEY







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